If you’re noodling on a decision and feeling stuck, consider these 5 steps:
- Find a colleague, family member or friend
- Set a timer for 20min
- Share with them where you’re stuck
- Have them ask you questions for 20min (no statements, assertions or ideas, just questions)
- When the timer goes off, consider: what’s my next step?
Do the floss dance because you just unstuck yourself.

See also: Out loud and 16 reasons making an arbitrary numbered list is the best way to get unstuck and spark possibility.